Relationship Compatibility Readings & Coaching

For me, astrology doesn't work by predicting events. It works as a symbolic, metaphoric language: images that, read well, turn out to be strikingly relevant to your actual life. The chart doesn't cause anything; it reflects, the way a good metaphor does, and gives you something to contemplate.

Your natal chart — also called a birth chart — is a snapshot of the sky at the exact moment you were born. From your birth date, time and place, it maps where the sun, moon and planets sat, along with your rising sign and the houses they fall in. In a reading I treat it as a symbolic map of your patterns rather than a prediction — a way to understand yourself and what's happening in your life right now.

Reach out anyway — we can usually work it out together. The exact time does matter. In astrology it sets the houses and the finer aspects. In Human Design it determines the variables, which are some of the most revealing parts of a chart. Without it, we lose access to that depth. But an unknown birth time is rarely a dead end. Birth certificates, hospital records and family memory often turn something up, and there are ways to narrow it down from the events of your life. Tell me what you have and we'll take it from there.

Human Design was founded in 1987 by Ra Uru Hu, born Alan Robert Krakower. It synthesises astrology, the I Ching, the chakra system, the Kabbalah and a little quantum physics into one map. For me, its purpose is mechanical: it describes how a person actually operates, and how that shifts in the presence of others. It's why we feel so different depending on who we're with — that's pure mechanics, not mood. What I lean on most is the foundation: your strategy, authority and aura type, the practical keys to how you're built to make decisions and meet the world. Then the finer details, like the variables that describe how you take life in. It's a fairly deterministic lens: less about what you should do, more about how you're made. If you'd like to explore the source, it's kept alive at Jovian Archive.

The Gene Keys are a contemplative teaching created by Richard Rudd — an evolution of the same 64 symbols found in Human Design and the I Ching. But where Human Design maps mechanics, the Gene Keys ask you to sit with them. Each key moves through three frequencies: a Shadow, a Gift and a higher expression. The heart of it, and the thing I'm most passionate about, is this: every shadow holds a gift inside it. The very pattern that trips you up is the raw material of your gift — not something to fix or escape, but to contemplate until it turns. Of all these systems, the Gene Keys are the most contemplative, and for me that reframe was a complete breakthrough.

In a sense. People use that term for helping you live from your strategy, authority and type rather than just knowing them — and that's exactly what my Integration sessions do. But I don't work in a vacuum: the guidance always rests on your chart, your Human Design and your Gene Keys. We work with how you're actually built, instead of chasing goals that were never yours.

Not at all. I don't work with astrology as prediction or belief — I work with it as a language. The symbols and themes are there to be tried on, questioned and tested against your own experience, and the exercises stand on their own. Human Design especially asks you to experiment rather than take anything on faith. Plenty of the people I work with arrive curious and a little sceptical. That's a perfectly good place to begin.

Not "Libra plus Gemini equals a good match," and not a score out of ten. Real compatibility is how two whole people meet — where your needs line up, where they'll always differ, where the friction lives and where the ease does. I read that through both charts so you understand the actual dynamic between you, rather than get a verdict on it. Difference isn't the problem; not having a language for it is.

I don't give scores, and I don't hand down verdicts. What a reading can do is show you clearly how you're each built and where the friction really comes from. Often that's the relief people needed: the problem was never a lack of love, just a difference no one had language for. And sometimes it opens a harder, honest conversation. My only agenda is your clarity — what you do with it is yours.

No. All the deeper work starts with one person, because the only wiring you can truly take responsibility for is your own. Plenty of people come alone — to understand themselves, or to understand a relationship the other person isn't ready to look at. If you do want a full two-person reading, I'll need birth details for both of you, and both of you genuinely willing. But you never have to arrive as a pair.

Absolutely. Every reading stands on its own — a print-ready PDF and a voice message from me, with exercises to work through in your own time. Some people take it from there and never need anything more. Coaching is there only if you want help turning what you've seen into practice; it's always optional, and always a separate step you choose.

It works alongside them, not instead of them. Therapy and counselling are their own disciplines, and I'd never tell anyone to skip them — in fact you're welcome to take your report to your therapist and explore it there. What I offer is a different lens: astrology and Human Design as a language for how each of you is built. Some people use it on its own; many use it beside other good work. I'm not a therapist, and I don't pretend to be — I read charts and help you put what they show to work. I'm clear about that line.

Those are all real, useful lenses, and if they've helped your relationships, wonderful — keep using them. They tend to describe what you're like from the outside. What I found is that astrology and Human Design gave me the cleanest sense of how things actually move between two people — the mechanics underneath the pattern. It's not better or truer; it's another lens, and often a clarifying one. You can hold several at once.

Yes. A co-founder relationship is one of the highest-stakes partnerships there is, and it runs on the same wiring as any other. I read how each of you is built, where you'll naturally divide the work, and where you'll compete for the same ground. Then what each of you needs to do your best work — whether you're deciding to commit or already in it and grinding. My background is years inside large international organisations, so the business context isn't foreign to me.

The reading is delivered to you: a print-ready PDF and a voice message from me, with exercises to sit with. It's made to be lived with and returned to, not rushed through in a single call. The live conversation is the optional Integration Session, which you can book three weeks after you receive your report.

Once we've agreed on the right consultation, I'll send you everything you need. You can pay by Revolut or by bank transfer — in euros, pounds, dollars, or any other currency Revolut supports.